{"id":195,"date":"2009-06-10T15:07:09","date_gmt":"2009-06-10T08:07:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/oktobrima.staff.fe.uns.ac.id\/?p=195"},"modified":"2009-06-10T15:07:09","modified_gmt":"2009-06-10T08:07:09","slug":"perenungan-antara-love-dengan-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/angga.feb.uns.ac.id\/?p=195","title":{"rendered":"Perenungan antara love dengan marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/oktobrima.feb.uns.ac.id\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/06\/jump-for-love-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-197\" src=\"http:\/\/oktobrima.feb.uns.ac.id\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/06\/jump-for-love-1-300x214.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"214\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>A student asks a teacher, &#8220;What is love?&#8221;The teacher said, &#8220;in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.<br \/>\nBut the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back or pick.<br \/>\n&#8220;The student went to the<br \/>\nfield, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but<br \/>\nhe wonders&#8230;.may<br \/>\nbe there is a bigger one later.<br \/>\nThen he saw another bigger<br \/>\none&#8230; but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for<br \/>\nhim.<br \/>\nLater, when he finished<br \/>\nmore than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat<br \/>\nis not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the<br \/>\nbiggest one, and he regretted.<br \/>\nSo, he ended up went back to<br \/>\nthe teacher with empty hand.<br \/>\nThe teacher told him,<br \/>\n&#8220;&#8230;this is love&#8230; you keep looking for a better one, but when later<br \/>\nyou realize, you have already miss the person&#8230;.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What is marriage then?&#8221;<br \/>\nthe student asked. The teacher said, &#8220;in<br \/>\norder to answer your question, go to the corn field<br \/>\nand choose the<br \/>\nbiggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go<br \/>\nthrough them<br \/>\nonly once and cannot turn back to pick.&#8221; The student went to the corn<br \/>\nfield, this time he is careful not to repeat<br \/>\nthe previous mistake, when<br \/>\nhe reach the middle of the field, he has picked<br \/>\none medium corn that he<br \/>\nfeel satisfy, and come back to the teacher. The teacher told him,<br \/>\n&#8220;this time you bring back a corn&#8230;. you look for one<br \/>\nthat is just<br \/>\nnice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you<\/p>\n<p>get&#8230;. this is marriage.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/oktobrima.feb.uns.ac.id\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/06\/marriage-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-200 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/oktobrima.feb.uns.ac.id\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/06\/marriage-1-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"154\" height=\"154\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angga.feb.uns.ac.id\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/06\/marriage-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angga.feb.uns.ac.id\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/06\/marriage-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/angga.feb.uns.ac.id\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/06\/marriage-1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angga.feb.uns.ac.id\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/06\/marriage-1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angga.feb.uns.ac.id\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/06\/marriage-1-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/angga.feb.uns.ac.id\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/06\/marriage-1.jpg 1039w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 154px) 100vw, 154px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A student asks a teacher, &#8220;What is love?&#8221;The teacher said, &#8220;in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back. 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