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A student asks a teacher, “What is love?”The teacher said, “in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back or pick.
“The student went to the
field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but
he wonders….may
be there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger
one… but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for
him.
Later, when he finished
more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat
is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the
biggest one, and he regretted.
So, he ended up went back to
the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him,
“…this is love… you keep looking for a better one, but when later
you realize, you have already miss the person….”

“What is marriage then?”
the student asked. The teacher said, “in
order to answer your question, go to the corn field
and choose the
biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go
through them
only once and cannot turn back to pick.” The student went to the corn
field, this time he is careful not to repeat
the previous mistake, when
he reach the middle of the field, he has picked
one medium corn that he
feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher. The teacher told him,
“this time you bring back a corn…. you look for one
that is just
nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you

get…. this is marriage.”